토마토 소스 베이컨 링귀니

주말저녁~~
맛나는 파스타 해먹었다..

베이컨과 냉장고 속 남은 재료들~ 양송이, 레드 파프리카, 양파, 블랙 올리브.. .

2인분만 주로 만들어서 그런가.. 다 만들고 나니,, 양이 헉~~

그래도 다 먹었다.. ㅋㅋ

ㅎㅎ 샤도네이 와인~~ 어울리는진 모르겠으나...



냠냠~ 럭셔리 디저트 딸기~~

커피삼촌: 신메뉴 쿠키 쉐이크

신제품인 쿠키 쉐이크란다..

아직은 필지 않는 건데... 단골이라 먹을 수 있었다.. ^^

"오레오"를 갈아서 만든 것 같은 맛~

적당히 달콤하고 시원하다.. :)

콩다방, 별다방 못지 않게 맛있음.. ㅎㅎ

커피삼촌: 케냐 AA

단골 커피집에 간만에 왔다.
흙향의 케냐 AA

강배전으로 하나? 암튼...
커피삼촌 커피는 역시 짱!!

올가을에 하는 까페쇼는 꼭 가고 싶다.. 흣~

Emotional detachment

Attachment의 반대개념인 줄 알았는데, 아니네..
그것도 2가지 sense나 있다. ㅋ

wiki에서 퍼온 설명...

Emotional detachment, in psychology, can mean two different things. In the first meaning, it refers to an "inability to connect" with others emotionally, as well as a means of dealing with anxiety by preventing certain situations that trigger it; it is often described as "emotional numbing" or dissociation, depersonalization or in its chronic form depersonalization disorder. In the second sense, it is a type of "mental assertiveness" that allows people to maintain their boundaries and psychic integrity when faced with the emotional demands of another person or group of persons. These senses are within the framework of psychology and academia, not those of everyone else in the world.

Second sense: mental assertiveness

Emotional detachment in the second sense above is a positive and deliberate mental attitude which avoids engaging the emotions of others. It is often applied to relatives and associates of people who are in some way emotionally overly demanding. A simple example might be a person who trains himself to ignore the "pleading" food requests of a dieting spouse. A more widespread example could be the indifference parents develop towards their children's begging. It is not to be confused with being wilfully cold or unpleasant, because it is a positive mental attitude. Of course, the decision as to whether emotional detachment in any given set of circumstances is considered to be a positive or negative mental attitude is a subjective one, and therefore a decision on which different people may not agree.

This detachment does not mean avoiding the feeling of empathy; it is actually more of an awareness of empathetic feelings that allows the person space needed to rationally choose whether or not to be overwhelmed or manipulated by such feelings.

오늘의 점심: 치킨 데리야끼

엊저녁 장본것으로 만든 치킨 데리야끼

겉보기엔 치킨 데리야끼로 안보인다. 

데리야끼 간장 넣어서 굽는게 어렵다. @.@ 

프라이팬에 바로 넣으면 닭이 안 익고... 흠.. 

뭔가 기술이 필요함.. 

브로콜리를 넣어서 먹었더니 맛나네.. ㅎㅎ